I think we all have those words or
phrases that define us in the various phases of life. Mine come of
much surprise to me: Organization, Structure, Discipline, and
Commitment. Those that know me know that these were concepts and
values that I despised as a child. There is a feeling of freedom that
comes from doing what I want, when I want. To have structure, and to
be disciplined was a slap in the face of the freedom I craved. The lack
of discipline, fear of commitment, and phobia of responsibility were
the road blocks of success in life. The illusion of freedom soon
became the anchor of progress and the fog that plagued the mind when
clarity was needed.
Growing up I was told that there were
two kinds of people in this world. Dreamers, and Doers. Everyone
dreams, and so we all really are all dreamers. The qualities that
separate the dreamers from the doers are many. But the most important
is Discipline. Discipline is doing what I need to do, when I need to
do it. Upon that, organization and structure are easily created. As
someone who despised these concepts, the initial battle of doing what
I didn't want to do was difficult. Eventually though, a rhythm is
developed. Upon that rhythm I can finally fit time and energy into
the pursuit of the very thing that was the catalyst for my pursuit of
these concepts: Goals.
One statement I hear often is “Don't
let your dreams be dreams.” Goals are built upon these dreams. One
of the biggest and unnoticed crimes against your life you can commit
is the act of not dreaming. The next largest crime is telling
yourself you can not or are incapable of achieving something. Or
perhaps you do dream, but feel like a dream is unreachable and
therefore not worth pursuing. You couldn't be more wrong. If you
feel that way, you've missed the point entirely. A phrase I heard
recently was “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss at least you will be land among the stars.” So dream. Pursue your goals, and maximize your
velocity. Crank up the intensity that you bring to life. But first,
water the seeds of discipline and commitment.
-Jacob
The quote "Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss at least you will be land among the stars" is by Norman Vincent Peale
The quote "Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss at least you will be land among the stars" is by Norman Vincent Peale